This And That ..
Posted on Thursday, November 1, 2007 at 4:02 AM
Been awhile since I have made a personal post. Nice to finally have one blog for myself and another for blog development stuff .. course I need to post more here. :D
I have been so busy and haven't had much time for anything but work and family lately. Hopefully over the next month I will have some more time for other things.
I mentioned before that I had dropped out of high school which as you get older you realize was a big mistake .. but anyways this isn't really about the mistake. My current job now requires a high school diploma or GED. So a couple weeks ago I signed up at our local community college and took all five GED tests within one day and passed them all .. even without studying. :D
I was a little worried how hard it would be but once I started with the first test I noticed how basic the tests were and I hate to degrade it but I felt like I was doing my son's 5th grade homework or something. People sometimes wonder why it took me 13 years to go and get my GED and with most things in my life I need a reason for it. In this case it was for my job but after I took it there was a little self satisfaction in sort of correcting one of my biggest mistakes by dropping out of high school. Having a GED does allow me to further my education if I wished .. and some day I might but doesn't interest me and can't really do anything financially with it but it's nice knowing I can now if I want to. :)
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I noticed some drama going on in the community and usually it involves me but this time I was able to see it from the outside looking in .. and I hate to sound hypocritical but it all seems so silly and a waste of time. Of course I know from my own experiences it's not silly or meaningless to the people involved and I think people should keep that in mind.
A lot of times the reasons for the drama get lost in the chaos that soon follows. I know there was many times I felt justified in my position only to have my facts and reasons get lost by the amount of involvement from people who had little or no clue on what was going on.
The same thing goes for this recent drama. The majority of it is between two people and we should have the respect to let it be between the two people and try and keep out when we don't have all the information. Speculation and taking sides only causes more problems and hurt feelings that could be easily avoided.
Of course people are more then willing to give their opinion and I would never stop anyone from doing that.
Now I have seen some leave because of some negativity from the community and others having some concerns. I am not trying to belittle these people but the majority of the negativity that I saw was from an anonymous troll and is not even a part of this community and should just be ignored. The other negativity comes from historically deeper issues between certain individuals that we shouldn't even involve ourselves with and doesn't reflect the community as a whole.
Other then that I don't see what there is to complain about. The community is very healthy and active. As one person mentioned recently the community doesn't revolve around a few members. There is so much more within our community to be proud of and to say their is no activity or the only activity is negative is basically the same as saying other people's stuff is not worth much. I understand some people have their inner circles and they could easily be effected by problems within those circles but keep in mind this community is much bigger and more important then just a few members and will always carry on and be a positive place to call home. :)
I have been so busy and haven't had much time for anything but work and family lately. Hopefully over the next month I will have some more time for other things.
I mentioned before that I had dropped out of high school which as you get older you realize was a big mistake .. but anyways this isn't really about the mistake. My current job now requires a high school diploma or GED. So a couple weeks ago I signed up at our local community college and took all five GED tests within one day and passed them all .. even without studying. :D
I was a little worried how hard it would be but once I started with the first test I noticed how basic the tests were and I hate to degrade it but I felt like I was doing my son's 5th grade homework or something. People sometimes wonder why it took me 13 years to go and get my GED and with most things in my life I need a reason for it. In this case it was for my job but after I took it there was a little self satisfaction in sort of correcting one of my biggest mistakes by dropping out of high school. Having a GED does allow me to further my education if I wished .. and some day I might but doesn't interest me and can't really do anything financially with it but it's nice knowing I can now if I want to. :)
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I noticed some drama going on in the community and usually it involves me but this time I was able to see it from the outside looking in .. and I hate to sound hypocritical but it all seems so silly and a waste of time. Of course I know from my own experiences it's not silly or meaningless to the people involved and I think people should keep that in mind.
A lot of times the reasons for the drama get lost in the chaos that soon follows. I know there was many times I felt justified in my position only to have my facts and reasons get lost by the amount of involvement from people who had little or no clue on what was going on.
The same thing goes for this recent drama. The majority of it is between two people and we should have the respect to let it be between the two people and try and keep out when we don't have all the information. Speculation and taking sides only causes more problems and hurt feelings that could be easily avoided.
Of course people are more then willing to give their opinion and I would never stop anyone from doing that.
Now I have seen some leave because of some negativity from the community and others having some concerns. I am not trying to belittle these people but the majority of the negativity that I saw was from an anonymous troll and is not even a part of this community and should just be ignored. The other negativity comes from historically deeper issues between certain individuals that we shouldn't even involve ourselves with and doesn't reflect the community as a whole.
Other then that I don't see what there is to complain about. The community is very healthy and active. As one person mentioned recently the community doesn't revolve around a few members. There is so much more within our community to be proud of and to say their is no activity or the only activity is negative is basically the same as saying other people's stuff is not worth much. I understand some people have their inner circles and they could easily be effected by problems within those circles but keep in mind this community is much bigger and more important then just a few members and will always carry on and be a positive place to call home. :)
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